Hi ghouls! šš» This year has truly been a year of reflection for me since I am now in my tenth year of blogging. Iām truly a web veteran at this point and it just makes me feel old.
Today I want to talk about opinions I changed my mind about when it comes to horror. As we know now, I wasnāt always a horror fan and even when I first got into the genre, I had a lot of strong opinions and was pretty critical of media that I wasnāt consuming. Horror is now my favourite genre so I have much more positive things to say now!

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BODY HORROR
Body horror is something that I have come to gradually appreciate because it freaks me out so much. The idea of my body changing and mutating without my control is something that has terrified me for my entire life. Iām scared of ageing, of gaining weight, and Iām scared of getting pregnant so body horror is something that targets my fears and thatās what makes it so effective for me.
While it is important to be safe when consuming horror, I do think that horror can be used to confront specific fears and while I do still cover my eyes during the more gross body horror moments, it doesnāt freak me out in the way that it used to.
GORE
When I first got into horror, I did not like gore. At all. I thought it was pointless and just there for shock factor and therefore didnāt add anything to the plot or the scare factor. I completely wrote off the gore movie genre as being trash without giving it a chance.
These days, my favourite horror stories contain gore in one way or another. I donāt think that horror needs to have gore in it to be scary because scariness is subjective and there are more ways to get a reaction from your audience than just showing someone being dismembered. Thereās a time and a place for gore and there have been times when I thought that having gore in a more atmospheric story didnāt add anything to it
WOMEN IN HORROR
The portrayal of women in horror is something that I do still have some conflicting thoughts about, but the more that I delve into the genre, the more I realise that the genre canāt be painted in broad strokes.
There is the Madonna-Whore complex present in older horror media and while more men are killed in horror than women, in film, the more graphic kills tend to happen to women while men are used as cannon fodder. At one point in time (Iām guessing the late 1970s), the genre shifted to having women be the heroes as opposed to the damsels in distress that they were in classic stories.
This happened long before I was born so I only know horror to have female heroes but when I first got into the genre, I started with the Universal Monsters series which all had male heroes saving women. I have a post planned to discuss misogyny in horror so I donāt want to stay on this point for too long.
THE GENRE IN GENERAL
I think itās pretty obvious by now that my opinion on the genre has changed a lot in the almost 10 years since I first started exploring the horror genre. When I was a kid, I hated horror and wouldnāt go near it with a ten-foot pole because I just didnāt understand why people would want to read or watch things that made them scared or feel uncomfortable.
Now, I understand that the appeal of horror is the same as why people like rollercoasters: itās all about the rush of adrenaline you feel once the scariest parts are over. Thereās also the fact that horror can be used to help us face our biggest fears without having to do it in real life. I think thereās also a catharsis factor to horror because - whether people like it or not - there is almost always a message to a horror story, whether itās a cautionary one or a comment on society. It feels good to see corrupt or bigoted individuals (or monsters who represent those individuals) get taken down.
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Have you changed your mind about any opinions youāve had in the past? What made you change your mind?

I loved this post! And I saw myself in many of the things you said. I used to be a total chicken…or better, I hated anything bloody and gross. Now I consume a lot of horror, though almost all of it comes from books (but Iām a die-hard Supernatural fan). Body horror is still a problem for me, not because (again) it makes me afraid, but because it makes me queasy. But I can stomach a lot more than I used to. The one thing I still hate and always will (and consequently, I try not to watch) is bug horror. I can stomach bugs in books, but NOT in visual media. Thatās a problem, because you only need to watch a few CSI episodes and, voilĆ ! bug galore! š But I divert my eyes LOL. I also refused to watch the Supernatural episode called Bugs, and I have no intention to change my mind. Cockroaches (along with worms and snakes) are my kryptonite.
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Ooh, I canāt do bugs either! Anytime I see a bug or even read about bugs I can feel them crawling on my skin š±
Iām still not a big fan of horror, but who knows? Maybe someday that opinion will change.
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Maybe it will! I thought for the longest time that I would never be a horror fan š